Release: Friday, April 23, 2021
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Written by: Nikole Beckwith
Directed by: Nikole Beckwith
Starring: Ed Helms; Patti Harrison
****/*****
More than an acting showcase for its two leads, Nikole Beckwith’s romantic comedy Together Together is a wonderfully subversive effort that reconfigures the way we look at intimate relationships and how they can be formed.
If not wholesale reinvention — structurally this is still beholden to a formula — her sophomore feature film, following 2015’s psychological drama Stockholm, Pennsylvania, proves there are still nooks and crannies to explore within an overcrowded genre rife with trite titles. Written and directed by Beckwith, the story tells of a pair of strangers brought closer together through the shared experience of a surrogate pregnancy and how they reconcile the ephemeral nature of their connection. So the movie builds from an already intriguing and specific place. When you add in the sensational performances from Ed Helms and transgender actor Patti Harrison, you have something pretty special.
The film’s penchant for surprising you begins with the characters. In a career-best performance Helms plays Matt, a 40-year-old app developer who wants to start a family but the pieces just haven’t come together. What reads on paper or might come across in another rom-com as a potential sad-sack is brought to life by Helms as an average Joe with an unyielding optimism that makes you gravitate to him quickly, warts and all. Matt is undeniably an awkward dude, but his bouts of overbearingness and invasiveness come from genuine caring and excitement. His confidence and sense of purpose separate the character somewhat from the archetypal drifter or forever bitter man-child. It’s the fact his search for fulfillment involves having offspring rather than hooking up that makes him a rare breed of male rom-com lead.
Similarly, the pregnancy does not define the woman. Matching the established funnyman stride-for-stride, and in many instances besting him, is Patti Harrison in her début lead role. As Anna, the relative newcomer brings an authenticity that seems effortless. She, a 26-year-old single woman working as a barista, is of an obviously different social sphere and, less obviously but more significantly, a different background than Matt. Her own past is marked by controversial decisions that have led to strained familial relationships. In contrast to Matt’s to-a-fault enthusiasm Anna is more enigmatic and downbeat, not morose or depressive but rather more emotionally conservative despite the chaos under the surface. She also has aspirations beyond helping Matt fulfill a dream, using the money she will make from the transaction to fund her college tuition.
While Beckwith’s story is most interested in the awkward tension between her two principles, she also has an eye on external factors, such as the social norms that compel outsiders to speculate, judge, assume and/or in some way push back against something they view as weird or even amoral. In supporting roles (not all of which are necessarily supportive) Together Together features the likes of Fred Melamed (In A World. . .; A Serious Man) and Nora Dunn (Pineapple Express; Bruce Almighty) as Matt’s parents, the latter the most overt representation of disapproval. Tellingly, Anna’s parents never appear on screen.
Conspicuous meta commentary on infamous Hollywood perverts notwithstanding, this is a charitable movie that considers a lot of different perspectives, and those who aren’t necessarily supporting the team aren’t made out to be villainous. Others, if not fully-realized characters, are at least enjoyable to be around: Tig Notaro warmly plays a therapist who monitors the not-couple’s psychological and emotional progression across the weeks, while Sufe Bradshaw (Murder Mystery; VEEP) as an irritable technician and Julio Torres, in his first feature film appearance as Anna’s self-destructive coworker Jules, are here to kick the comedy factor up a few notches.
What’s impressive is the way Beckwith keeps the parameters of a more traditional romantic plot in place (the awkward dinner, the moving in together, the “break-up” and reconciliation) while never losing sight of the unique stakes. Rather than feeling like lazy checkpoints the tropes feel entirely plausible and, with the exception of a couple of overly quirky scenes, natural.
Delivered in three distinct acts turned appropriately into trimesters, Together Together opens with an interview as Matt vets Anna as a potential surrogate. These candid minutes are the first uncertain moves in what ends up becoming a complex, difficult and ultimately rewarding dance that the two characters engage in on a journey from strangers to something more than friends but less than lovers. The tricky part is not getting too emotionally attached. As it turns out, that might be even harder for us as viewers than it is for the participants.

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Moral of the Story: Short, sweet, and as poignant as it can be funny, Together Together doesn’t set a new standard but it comes with a level of humanity that feels really rare in the genre. Even better, there is such great balance from a writing standpoint, neither character or their concerns overshadowing the other. Nikole Beckwith’s compassionate, sensitive direction is not to be taken for granted. Now streaming on Hulu.
Rated: R
Running Time: 85 mins.
Quoted: “It’s weird to be perceived as hopeless in this moment when I’m feeling incredibly hopeful.”
Get a taste of the meet-awkward in the Official Trailer from Bleecker Street here!
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She was a revelation!
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It’s movies like these and when he does have impressive turns in something like, say, Chappaquiddick and Stretch that make me want to hold onto Helms stock. With the right script, he’s an asset because he’s not bad dramatically and he’s got some comedic chops that don’t have to be only relegated to slapstick.
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I’ve enjoyed Ed Helms is so many things. It explains why I followed him into Coffee & Kareem, which turned out to be a bad choice. Even then he was okay. But Together Together is him operating at another level. I was also super impressed by Patti Harrison.
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the R rating and your comment that it isn’t another rom-com copy has me interested… kinda. I do want to open my mind tho and this is my least faveourite genre by a mile. That you also said you reckon their is more humanity in this movie than other films of the genre has me more interested too, though I hope ‘Conspicuous meta commentary on infamous Hollywood perverts’ isn’t a pervasive part of the film.
MeToo needed to happen, but I think we all get it by now! Whether the abuse will stop is another matter obviously. I have been noticing more great female leads though (and international directors too) which has been cool – I loved that Carey Mulligan movie from last year. That it had a female director but ended like it did and didn’t really take a side either way was really impressive I thought
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That comment I made about Woody Allen refers to a brief scene. The movie doesn’t get on a soapbox or anything like that, but that scene does seem to stick out a bit. I’m not sure you’ll get on with this one as well as I did, but it’s 100% not the typical rom-com fare. First and foremost Together Together is interested in loneliness in the same way Lost in Translation was. The rom-com aspect is barely there, mostly with respect to the way she lays out the story and those familiar elements are there.
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